Aita for feeling left out of my step child's pregnancy.

Yesterday. I came home at 6pm and Billy wasn't home. I went to look for him after my fiancee's sister said he left in the morning. I finally saw my nighbor bringing him to me saying he saw my fiancee's sister drop him off near an auto repair shop a bit far from here. I was livid. Billy was too scared he couldn't even eat.Apr 26, 2024 · Not the A-hole. This morning I refused to help my wife get up out of bed. For context, my wife is very overweight. I'm not here to complain about this fact—she's been large since I first met her, and I've always found her attractive. But she has gained a significant amount of weight over the last 4 years. Shortly before our daughter was born ... r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.Agree. That step dad wasn't projecting any sort of strength at all. He pretty much proved he's an insecure weakling, in fact, who obviously isn't in control of his own damn emotions. He's the big AH here and i don't see coming back from this. edit to add his comment to "stop crying," that their dad "can't even hear you" is stunningly inappropriate and tone deaf to say the very least.

My (16/m) step-sister (14F, step-mom's child) suffered something traumatic 6 months ago and she's now afraid of being alone (she's attending therapy and everything). ... My take from your post is this: You may not feel comfortable around your step-sister but to her, you represent safety and comfort. For some reason, probably because of who you ... Originally posted to r/AITAH. AITA for telling my step kids I'm not their mom? Trigger Warnings: verbal abuse, emotional abuse and manipulation, miscarriage, possible parental alienation. Original post: February 24, 2024. My husband (40M) and I (36F) have been together for 8 years now and our marriage have been rocky.

YTA but I see what you were trying to do. I'm glad that from the sounds of it, your son has a very supportive parent in you. A lot of us don't, so for real, props to you. But your son only had one chance at coming out to you. It's a big moment for him, and your response was to make a joke.Throwawayfcsnow. MOD. AITA for telling my 18 yo daughter to either sue for child support or get out of my house? My (40F) 18 yo daughter " Ava" dropped out of high school after getting pregnant by her then boyfriend, who is 19. Ava will be 19 soon, has no job and a 10 month old baby. Her boyfriend " Andrew" moved from Jacksonville FL to Miami ...

I was the single child from the previous marriage. Treated as a burden. Barely interacted with. It was obvious to my mother and her family but nothing was done. I was the unwanted one. Now I am borderline no contact with anyone (yearly email is about it). I had to go that way for my own sanity or I would not be here on this Earth anymore.r/AmItheAsshole. r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.That your partner has to pay his fair share and you split every bill 50/50 unless you are married. And you pay for the child if it is with you. Not at his moms place, not anything else. You are a step parent. The child has two parents who could pay for it. And also try to evaluate the whole relationship.My father married Amy(29F) this past summer. I (27F) have no relationship with her. I do my best to avoid any family events that she is attending. My grandparents and my father never had a great relationship. They told me that I would be receiving most of their inheritance and camp. My grandfather passed away two years ago from a heart attack.My parents left me about $75k and it was the first inheritance in the family in known history. I put $35k down on a retirement house and I saved like crazy for my own retirement. I was able to retire at age 52 and, if the market doesn't make me broke, I will leave my 3 children much more than I received. They don't "need" it.

We are aware that wife's ex-husband has had a windfall of inheritance money (as conveyed by my step children). This means that my step children are set to inherit that windfall if not squandered. Their paternal grandmother and other family members are still in the picture with possible inheritance that may yet be passed down.

NTA because you are a teenager. Your step mother is way out of line and you should put her in her place. You are absolutely right this is not about her. But the language is the issue. You don't need to throw insults (despite feeling good) as it gives your step mom an "out" for her behaviour.

I had to watch my best friend and her children lose 2 dads. I was friends with their bio-dad, and did whatever I could for her when he died. Later, she married my brother, who was my best friend, and sh3 became my SIL. My brother adopted the kids as his own. Then we lost him too. Now she and I are co-moms. I love them more than anything.It was a shock to me when my stepdaughter changed her demeanor and started saying sorry out of nowhere, I don't know if it's sincere or she's just ready for me to leave. …It was several hours later that I got a message from my parents saying I needed to be with my sister. A few days later I got another call and was told my sister had been pregnant, the baby passed away inside of her and she delivered a stillborn all while he was out sleeping with someone else.Reasonable-Issue2334. AITA for calling my sister for treating her child better then me. Asshole. My sister taken my brothers and I in when we were just ( 4f 5m 6m) and she was only 19 at the time and did sacrifice alot for us including her boyfriend she been with since she was 12 who broke up with her when he found out that she'd be applying ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for picking up my kids for scheduled custody time? Not the A-hole. I have four kids from prior relationships, and my wife has one. She has full custody of her son, but I have two of my kids here full time and weekends for the other two. My wife gave birth on Wednesday and came home from the hospital on Thursday.ADMIN MOD. Aita for telling my parents that either I move out or they do something about my brother. I (25m) live with my parents in a very expensive city. We stay in a three bedroom high rise. My mom recently decided she wanted to move to this city because she was tired of living in the country.

AITA for being mad that my step daughter will inherit our house. Asshole. My husband (65) and I (47) have been married for 10 years. After my husband's retirement party, the discussion of wills and inheritance came up and my husband informed me that he is leaving our marital home to his daughter (30) in his will which left me feeling ...OP I left home at 16 and went back just before my 17th birthday because parents had 'changed' only to be kicked through a wall a few months later. The second time I left (the day of the wall incident) was the last time I saw/spoke to them and I'm 30 now. I left during my exams here in England and fucked them all up because I was so distressed.I [F29] met my STBH (soon-to-be husband), [M32] 2yrs ago. He's wheelchair bound, yes but, he's the most kind-hearted, generous person I've known, I'm not the prettiest or most intellegent out there but he accepts and loves me as I am. We met via group therapy cause he lost his mom in the same accident that made him disabled. when he met my mom...Are you excited about your upcoming trip but feeling a bit unsure about how to confirm your flight ticket? Don’t worry, we’ve got you covered. In this step-by-step guide, we will w...My mother passed away 3 years ago, I (19F) was her only biological child but she took care of my step-dad's children (25M, 26M and 30F) since their mom died giving birth to 25M (I'll call him Jon) so my mom what their only maternal figure, they married when I was 2 and she took care of them ever since. I'm not personally close with either of them or her …Not the A-hole. I (24f) am getting married next summer to my fiancee J. My mom died when i was 7. Dad married K 4 years later. K has a daughter E (22) from a previous relationship. K and E are easily the most entitled, spoil and rude people I've ever met. They never treated me like family, K has done everything possible to push me away from the ...NTA. He brought her into your family without your full consent. He assumed you would be a SAHM to her because you agreed to it when you got pregnant with your own child that you miscarried, sorry for your loss. My stepbrother had severe autism and had a rare form of cancer later in life. He was 58 yrs old when he died. My grandmother took care ...

Moving forward, I'd ask that celebrations that include me don't include her. I don't want her referred to as my mom. She won't be invited to my wedding. She will not be grandmother to my kids. I won't bend on this or change my mind, so you need to respect my boundaries." Then, I'd block this woman on everything, and I'd go LC with your family.They planned to spend the afternoon together. She saw some hot commodities and left him to swim with them and "accidentally" lost her sports bra-type bikini top, didn't replace it and kept swimming with a bunch of random dudes. This happened while he took her on an expensive romantic vacation.

My cousin says they chose to get married on their one year engagement anniversary. Either way, regardless of the real reason, I'm still upset. Of course, my nana is super excited. So reddit, aita for not allowing them to get engaged during my wedding reception and aita for not attending the wedding on my one year anniversary?The "why" a kid wants to stay/visit with one parent is the most important factor. If it's because one parent has no rules, doesn't make them go to school and lets them party all day, etc. the kid's wishes aren't given much, if any, weight. And if a judge senses alienation, parenting time will likely still be enforced.In a situation in which there are no step-kids the normal progression is 1 parent dies, 2nd parent inherits everything. 2nd parent dies, kids inherit everything. But when there are step-parents, the process can get circumvented because then the process goes like this: 1st parent dies, step-parent inherits everything.Sending your child to preschool can be an emotional experience for both parent and child. It is a big step towards independence and the beginning of their academic journey. As a pa... SageGreenRose. AITA for refusing to allow my BIL or his kids into my house? Not the A-hole. BG: Younger sister (28f) married two years ago. Her husband (35m) was a widower with kids (11m) and (10f). His first wife died 5 years ago I believe. BIL and his kids were nowhere near ready for him to remarry. His family seemed to have pushed the issue ... Not the A-hole. (fake names) My (28m) childhood best friend Brad (28m) is getting married in late May to Vicky (26f). A week ago, on Easter I received his wedding invite which only listed my name but not my gf ,Mary (28f). For context, Brad, Mary and I have known each other since high school . We were in the same friend group.Like I said before me and my step sister share a birthday and since he spent a lot on the laptop (about 350) he gave my step sister a card with money that was about 150. She wasn't pleased with her gift at all, my step sister complained for a full week that it was unfair and then told her dad that she would go live full time with her mom if I ...I booked (paid) for the whole family. However, my daughter told me she couldn't find her passport. We turned the house upside down looking for it but couldn't find it. My husband said maybe it was a sign from God that we should let …My (19m) parents had me young and on accident. My childhood was nothing but money troubles and listening to my parents scream at each other. Things only got better when my mom left my dad and started seeing my stepdad. He brought financial stability and is more of a father to me than my bio dad ever was. They have a daughter together, my sister ...r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.

That's why it was arranged for Mum and Dad to come down and have today as Christmas. She knew that Mum and Dad had gifts from all the extended family. That they had gone and picked up our gifts from everyone else and promised to share the photos in return. So while the gifts were lovely, I am now left feeling deflated.

Apr 28, 2021 · The woman is pregnant with twins and the father, Joe, had gone back to his ex-girlfriend, Kim, already. However, both Joe and Kim want to be involved in the pregnancy, the birth process, and raising the kids. Only one problem—Kim is way too invested in the process.

NTA because you are a teenager. Your step mother is way out of line and you should put her in her place. You are absolutely right this is not about her. But the language is the issue. You don't need to throw insults (despite feeling good) as it gives your step mom an "out" for her behaviour.I (43f) have two children, my daughter May is 21 and my son Luke is 17. May's father and I split shortly after she was born, and I met my now husband when she was about a year old. Due to work and life circumstances, May primarily stayed with her father but visited us on the weekends when she was younger.Not Lana, and not Lana's kids. You are choosing not to prioritize your children. At the very least be honest with yourself that you have been choosing a full grown woman's comfort over being there for your kids. Either own it, let your kids know this is how it will be so they can start emotionally disengaging with you.OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I made my stepmother cry by telling her exactly how I felt about her/how she made me feel as a kid, and how I would not give her the relationship she wanted. Then I left her there to cry alone. I didn't comfort her or anything.Back in college, my roommate and I were exchanging pranks as part of an underlying feud. He was bringing a girl over that night, so I took a pair of his boxer briefs out of his dresser, and smeared a healthy amount of that natural peanut butter (with the oil and nut chunks) on the ass part, and left it visible on his bedroom floor.Glad it was not only resolved, but progressed your relationship. One of my twin friends always makes the joke that he was born 6 minutes earlier and therefore has a vast amount more of worldly experience because of compounding interest. For only twin children - only twildren, if you will, I think it will be fun going from having a sibling buWhat you want is a wedding where no one has any type of disability or cognitive disorder. You are the ah for: 1) your ableist attitude; 2) prioritizing some image that you have of "your day" over peoples' feelings; and 3) not giving a shit about what your fiancé thinks. Edit: Typo.They planned to spend the afternoon together. She saw some hot commodities and left him to swim with them and "accidentally" lost her sports bra-type bikini top, didn't replace it and kept swimming with a bunch of random dudes. This happened while he took her on an expensive romantic vacation.AITA for moving out with my infant because I am starting to hate my step daughter? (mistake in title, I moved out with my 3 kids, including our infant). Been with my husband for 8 years. He has a 13yo daughter ("SD"). I have a 14yo son, a 9yo son and my husband and I have a 5 month old daughter together. Prior to me giving birth, life was ...1.7K votes, 511 comments. true. Throwaway Account Okay this is a bit messy but please stick with me. I (26f) have am my mom's (54f) child and only daughter to my dad who she met after breaking up with my uncle "Bob" (53m) who had cheated on her with my aunt "Jane" (51f) and was pressured into marriage by their parents finding out Jane was pregnant with my cousin "Amelia" (32f). I'm not sure ...You don't owe her or that child anything, and most definitely not your money or husband's insurance. You're entitled to that. You were together a total of 11 years. If you don't want to use it for yourself, establish a scholarship fund in his name or donate it to a local worthy charity.

One traditional Vietnamese. Walked into her parents house and the seafood smell about knocked me out. I put on my big girl pants excused myself to the restroom and rubbed some peppermint chapstick under my nose. Burned like a mo fo but I was able to stick it out. I had to step outside a few times. But I managed. I stopped for food when I left.Lokimis12. AITA for kicking my pregnant sister-in-law out? Not the A-hole. My brother (29M) and sister-in-law (SIL) (29F) asked Wednesday if they could come for a visit at that weekend. (They 6h away). We said sure, love to see you. Friday afternoon, I (34F) had an ultrasound for my 8 week pregnancy. The ultrasound showed a likely miscarriage.My husband and I are raising three kids. My husband was married before me and he has a son, Cole (16m) from his first marriage. Cole's mom died 11 years ago and my husband and I met 9 years ago and married 7 years ago. Together my husband and I have a daughter Freya (6) and Theo (5). Cole has never really accepted me as family or the kids. Right as soon as I get ready to step in (literally fast walking toward them yelling "enough"), my wife winds back and punches my mother square in the face and drops her. The whole house went silent outside of my mom crying and holding her face. I tell everyone to "get the fuck out". Immediately everyone leaves and my wife just turns toward the ... Instagram:https://instagram. piggly wiggly of batesvillerandom gimkit codesmeal ideas for diverticulitispersian baddie ig ADMIN MOD. AITA for asking my wife to have an abortion. No A-holes here. My wife and I (both mid 30s) have been happily married for nine years. We don't have any kids and don't want kids. We had the "what if" talk before getting married; she told me she would want to have an abortion if she ever got pregnant. fatal car crash jacksonville floridairs reference number 1242 That's so awful! My friends child (age 9) did the same thing (cried about feeling overwhelmed) but her parents responded by feeling terrible and asking her why. It turns out there was a particular chore she was finding too hard but she's naturally so well behaved / people pleaser she felt she couldn't say no.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. husson family medicine bangor maine Social and behavioural therapist Katy Harris says that when she hears a child complain about feeling left out, the backstory usually involves the child being …FleeSwishty. MOD. AITA for having an underwhelming reaction to my mom being pregnant? Not the A-hole. My parents told me (15f) a few weeks ago that they're expecting another baby. This will be my first sibling and possibly only sibling because it took such a long time for my mom to have another baby. I'll admit to not being that excited.My (19m) parents had me young and on accident. My childhood was nothing but money troubles and listening to my parents scream at each other. Things only got better when my mom left my dad and started seeing my stepdad. He brought financial stability and is more of a father to me than my bio dad ever was. They have a daughter together, my sister ...